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23-year-old woman suffers fatal injuries after falling from Perris Boulevard overpass

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Saturday, June 13th, 2009.
Issue 24, Volume 9.

MORENO VALLEY - A woman threatened to jump from the Perris Boulevard overpass onto the Moreno Valley (60) Freeway, then fell and suffered fatal injuries, sheriff's and coroner's officials said.

The woman was identified today as Sade Angel Hargress, 23. The coroner stated her city of residence was unknown.

Deputies in Moreno Valley started getting calls at 8:03 p.m. about a woman threatening to jump off a freeway overpass, said sheriff's Investigator Matt Diaz.

Callers told dispatchers the woman fell two minutes later. An ambulance crew was on scene and rendered immediate assistance, Diaz said.

The woman was taken to nearby Riverside County Regional Medical Center, where she was pronounced dead at 8:30 p.m., according to the coroner.

 

104 comments for "23-year-old woman suffers fatal injuries after falling from Perris Boulevard overpass"



9:23 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
1. Caryn says :

Very sad but not surprising. These days we live in a depressing world with all kinds of chaos and uncertainties. I'm afraid it'll get worse before it gets better!!!!!!!!!

9:23 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
2. Markeeda T says :

im so sorry about what happend. sade i never beleived you would do this. i just seen you. you was happy to see me and i just cant beleive it. omg. i love you mammas.

9:23 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
3. jazz P says :

R.I.P. Sade... I LOVE YOU BABE... I'm so sorry I wasn't There for you!!! It hurts my heart that you are gone.....

9:23 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
4. FeFe says :

OMG..I can't believe this... I keep on looking at all the picture that I have of u from middle school and high school Sade...u look so happy...I hope your soul R.I.P U will forever be in my heart girl. My prayers goes out to u, your daughter, and your family. Always Felicia

9:24 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
5. Tamika says :

DaNg Sade thats crazy we go way back and to wake up and find out that lifes troubles and everything else was so overwhelming for you. I wish I couldve saw your face again once more. I will be praying for the fam and you will be truly missed! song dedicated...T.I. Live iin the sky

9:24 pm Sat, Jun 13th, 2009
6. Jill says :

I don't recall exactly what time my mom began to call 911, we were eating dinner at Sizzler when my mom looked up and witnessed the lady on the ledge. The entire scene seemed like it lasted for well over 15 min, but time moves slow when you are waiting for rescue vehicles. 911 phone was busy, several diners were trying to call. Another lady appeared on the freeway to talk to the lady who jumped, they started to walk away, then she turned back, ran and jumped. It was frustrating to see that help was needed and no police arrived until after the fact. Who knows how long the lady was even on the ledge before my mom noticed. The news article states she jumped 2 min after originally reported, that is untrue.....it was SEVERAL minutes later....10, maybe 15 minutes. God Bless the person who stopped on the freeway to try to help.

8:03 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
7. Mrs Cherelle says :

R.I.P SADE. I love you and you will be forever missed.

8:04 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
8. Antoinette says :

Omg, I was at work [stater bros] when all of this happened not ever thinking it could be someone I know off this is horrifying..WHERE ARE THE POLICE WHEN U NEED THEM.BECAUSE THIS SHOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED :( ....I knew her mom and family I can't believe this happened its to hard to believe I know life is hard these days and I wish things could have been better for u rest in peace Sade..and my prayers are with her family god please watch over them and let them know things will be ok.

8:04 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
9. shayshay says :

Sade sweetie I think about what happened and get upset because I am hurt that you would do something like this especially because of Skye but I wish I could have been there for you hun. Now I'm just speechless that this could happen. I will always love you and miss you. Until our next life time, R.I.P baby girl you will always be in my heart.

Shayshay
Comment Continued : The comment above was written from the same location.
8:04 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
10. shayshay says :

Sade sweetie I think about what happened and get upset because I am hurt that you would do something like this especially because of Skye but I wish I could have been there for you hun. Now I'm just speechless that this could happen. I will always love you and miss you. Until our next life time, R.I.P baby girl you will always be in my heart.

Shayshay

8:05 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
11. john says :

is this the same sade that attended westech college moreno valley does any one know

8:05 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
12. Devin says :

Sade I will forever miss your big smile...please everyone take this as a lesson...dont let any circumstance lead you to this...just look up to God...he will carry you through even when you cant carry yourself!!! RIP SADE!!!

8:05 am Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
13. kem says :

I was there at sizzler and and saw her up on the edge of the freeway walking and just standing on the ledge. She then got down and began to walk. Then the woman stopped and tried to help and got her to walk with her and then she got loose and started to run and got back on the ledge and then let herself go backwards. It was certainly without a doubt longer than 2 minutes. We all kept wondering where and when was help going to arrive. Everyone was calling the police and fire dept. from the start of seeing her up there. My husband and I went to the hospital last night and was there until midnight. Our prayers go out to the family and Sade. God Bless all

12:26 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
14. Ashley says :

Sade Im soooo sorry i wasent there for u in ur tyme of need, id just seen u 2 days ago and all we could talk about was our kids. I thought u were happy wit ur life from the way u smiled. Im sorry i couldnt be there for u in ur tyme of need, U made a desicion but that doesnt make u a bad person. I will always remember and love u. (ALWAYS) i cant get u off my mind.

i luv u

12:26 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
15. ROB says :

DAMN THIS IS CRAZY SADE WAS STAYING AT THE HOMIES THE LAST DAYS I DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS GOING THROUGH IT LIKE THAT SHE SEEMED COOL AND RELAX R.I.P. GIRL I WAS JUST GETTING TO KNOW YOU BUT ILL MISS YOU TOO.

12:26 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
16. BLAKE (AGAIN) says :

R.I.P SADE..MUCH LOVE ...AND WE LOVE U..

12:26 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
17. veronica says :

it doesnt surprise me that everyone is saying that it was more than 2 minutes after she jumped that tha ambulance arrived... & it certainly does not surprise me that the phone lines where busy (911). i always tell my husband that our 911 is crappy, its ALWAYS busy! i tried calling a couple of times when we had an emergency & believe me if u were dyin u wud have better luck crawling to the E.R.!

12:27 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
18. BLAKE says :

SADE MAMA I REMEMBER THE STRONG TOUGH SADE I KNEW BACK IN HIGH SCHOOL THAT WOULD NEVER LET ANYONE DISRESPECT..I SEEN U A FEW TIMES AFTER AT THE VIBE AND WONDERED WHERE IS THE THICK SADE I KNEW LOL......BUT EVERYDAY IS A STRUGGLE FOR EVERYONE AND IT GETS HARD....BUT NOW UR IN A BETTER PLACE...IT BREAKS MY HEART BECAUSE NO ONE IS INVISABLE I LOVE U MA AND GOD BLESS U...ILL MISS U ALWAYS...I SEND THE ANGLES THAT SURROUND ME TO U.. KEEP HER SAFE AND SOUND..TOUGH BUT BEAUTIFULL PPL...GOD BLESS MAMA....... ALWAYS BLAKE..XOXOXOXO WE LOVE U MAMA..I SEND MY LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT U KNEW....STAY IN OUR HEARTS K....

12:31 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
19. Debby says :

I was there and I have to correct your reporter, the timeline is absolutely incorrect. There was a good 10-15 minutes between our call to 911 and the tragic end to this event. I'm am so upset by the entire thing as I feel it was preventable. The young lady reacted when she heard the sirens. She got down and moved away as though she was leaving. Not once but twice. It was the third time that she was much more frantic and decided to complete what she had set out to do. But where were the police? We heard the sirens as though they were coming. But they didn't show up. For goodness sake, Moreno Valley is not a big town. We made it from the mall to the overpass in approximately 5 minutes yesterday driving 30 mph and hitting every red light. The cops have the luxury of sirens, running lights and going in speeds well in excess of 30 mph. Why didn't they show up? On any given Friday afternoon/evening there are motorcycle police pulling people over left and right at that intersection. You can't tell me that they couldn't find officers to respond.

I am appalled. To serve and protect...isn't that the motto of the police? You were doing neither Friday night. And I know that there will be those who say its due to budget cuts etc. but my argument is simple. The cops were on duty Friday night. They showed up right after the tragedy unfolded. Obviously budget cuts hadn't affected them. It was failure to respond. As a crowd we watched and waited for the police. We heard them coming.

I'm angry at you for not showing up because my actions or inactions were predicated on the lie of those sirens. I would have done something if I knew you weren't coming. I would have reacted somehow. We could have each raised our voices and told this poor suffering woman that we cared and that we loved her. We didn't have to know her. One human to another, maybe we could have made a difference. But I didn't. Neither did anyone else. We waited because we thought you were coming as we were told by the wail of sirens we could hear. Why weren't you there? Can you answer me that? I would have driven my car up the onramp and helped that poor lady struggling to save her. Together we might have been able to restrain her. I know others would have acted too.

I cannot close my eyes without seeing that sight. I stayed and watched because I had to know she was safe. I trusted that she would be saved by the heroes in uniform. I guess that doesn't happen in this town. I didn't want to watch to see something gruesome - I HAD to know that she was rescued. Instead I will live with that moment the rest of my life. Unfortunately so will my young son. And so will her daughter.

Will you be there next time we need you? What will be the excuse next time? Will you manipulate the facts to try and reflect a two minute window between calls and the final outcome. This story is a lie. I know. We called. I was there.

My heart goes out to the poor family who suffers now. And to young girl left without a mother.

12:34 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
20. Ron says :

I called at 911 at 8:03 after having already been aware of the situation for at least 2 minutes. They said they were already aware. At this point the girl was standing on the guard rail with her back towards us with her arms outsrteched to her sides. Honestly , she stood so still that I initially thought some had placed a mannequin up there but then I saw her head move. After my 911 call we heard sirens and I breathed a sigh of relief. The girl jumped down off the rail and started running off the bridge. I thought she was just looking for attention at that point and was about to leave when the sirens stopped but no authorities had arrived. The girl must have noticed this too as she then turned around and ran back on to the bridge, stepping up on the rail and assumed her original position. There was a woman up there with her and they were obviously struggling. I do not know if she knew her or had just stopped to help. After a minute or so the girl came down off the rail again and left the bridge. The 2 continued to struggle. Then for the last time the girl broke free of the woman and ran back to the bridge. This time she ran harder and faster than she had before and she ran further, almost to the center of the bridge. She looked back to see if the woman was following and then stepped up on to the guardrail as she had done before and assumed her previous position with her back to us and arms outstretched. She remained that way for only a second or two and then she leaned backward. On such a narrow ledge one does not have to lean very far to breach the point of no return. The rest I will not describe but I would like to add 2 things. One, it has been said that she fell, that her jump was not deliberate. To me it appeared that the move was very much on purpose. There was no struggling or grasping to right herself once her feet left the ledge. On the contrary her fall could almost be described as graceful. I do hope that's not in poor taste, I only wish to illustrate that I believe she meant to go off. Whether she ultimately understood the consequences is not for us to say, but I think she understood her action. Additionally, the timeline has been grossly understated. As I said I called at 8:03 and they were already aware. It was considerably more thab 2 minutes later. I estimate 10-12 minutes from the time I became aware there was someone on the bridge until the tragic end. In my opinion the police could and SHOULD have been there much sooner and I intend to take this matter up with the city council. Just yesterday we drove from the mall in Moreno Valley to the bridge at Perris and Sunnymead in 5 minutes and 30 seconds. I drove less than the speed limit and hit several red lights (if not most of them). I would like to know where the police were and why it took so long to respond. The girl on the bridge reacted to the sirens we heard by fleeing. Perhaps had the police actually shown up the tragedy might have been averted. Lastly, I blame myself for not going up there to try and help. I justify my lack of action accordingly, I had my 8 year old son with me and I could not and would not leave him unattended, and I kept thinking the police would arrive any second. Maybe my reasons were valid or maybe not, either way I still feel guilty. My sincerest sympathies go out the the family.
Ron J

11:03 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
21. Kerstee says :

She was BEAUTIFUL.

11:03 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
22. ashley s says :

damn girly i dont know what was going on but i wish you could have talked to someone... you will be missed!!!

11:04 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
23. melissa k says :

Omg SaDe I cant believe this SaDe....YoU was Always the happy person in high school...when i seen u at that party you looked as if you were happy....man if i would have known your situation we could have talked....in high school when my mom passed u were there for me i just wish i could have been there for u...but u are in a better place now.....ily baby gurl

11:04 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
24. Kerstee says :

Im really sorry. I didn\'t know her but there\'s a place in my heart for her.

11:04 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
25. Racquel says :

You will be truely missed I came out here to visit my mom and this is not what I was expecting to hear I drove past the memorial and I did not know it was for you now I wish I would have stopped RIP SADE

11:05 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
26. Saucey says :

We, the young people, need to realize that life is real and that God is real. God talks to us and sometimes we don't listen. Sometimes the Lord will use us to bring us back to him. What happened to Sade was very sad and there is nothing we can do about it, but live on. We have to live for all of us not just yourself. We young people need to get together and support each other. God is the only way we all will get through this or anything that happens in life. We are here to serve him and when you serve him you know that when you leave here, being today, tomorrow, next week, you will be in his arms and not worry about this life that we are just passing through. To Sade's family and close friends, just pray, pray hard and God will listen. Allow the Lord to comfort you and keep you in his arms. And remember the only word on the street is his. God Bless everyone person breathing and living here on this earth.

11:05 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
27. KANDYCE says :

SORRY GUYS I SPELLED ANGEL WRONG.....SO LET ME SAY THIS AGAIN R.I.P SADE "OUR ANGEL" HARGRESS....U WILL BE MISSED

11:06 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
28. ALLie says :

When you call 911 from your cell phone it automatically goes to CHP.......calling from a land line is much more effective....The POLICE department received the call at 8:03 and were on the scene at 8:07.....She jumped at 8:05....that is what witnesses told police. The ambulance was there when she jumped......And honestly, if she was already on the bridge when the police got there she would have jumped....there would have been nothing they could have done. If she had it in her mind that she was gonna jump then there is nothing that would have stopped her. I think that anyone who was standing around watching should have stepped in and helped instead of standing around and watching a young girl try to kill herself.....Instead of criticizing the police who couldn't get to the scene in time....criticize what you could have done differently in the situation

11:08 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
29. kandyce says :

I have been knowing sade since landmark middle school....and I never thought the day would come that I would have heard this news...she was one of the most funniest people that I could have ever met....she always kept herself up at all times and never let anyone talk to her any kind of way....so that makes me ask my self what happen??? a person with so much personality and character was suffering....it makes me think i wish that when I seen her a few months ago why didn't I press the issue about getting her number or giving her mines.....why didn't I see that she was going through something and maybe I could have reminded her when we was in middle/high school that she was one of the people that I consider a friend.....it hurts me to know that it was person I knew....that it was young woman....a person with so much personality was suffering and she felt like she didn't have anyone that had her back....if i could turn back the hands of time I would let her know that even though we haven't hung out in years I would be have been there for you.....this situation makes me appreciate all the many blessings that GOD had giving me and I wouldn't trade it for world....to all my close friends, friends from elemenatry/middle/high school, new friends...know that kandyce is always here for anyone of you...I don't care if it is 3 or 4 in the morning...wake me up out my sleep because I don't to lose another friend....R.I.P SADE "OUR ANGLE" HARGRESS....U WILL BE MISSED

KANDI GIRL

11:09 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
30. Tay Taye says :

I DID NOT KNOW THIS WOMAN, AND I DIDN'T SEE THIS OCCUR. A FRIEND OF MINE WAS AT THE LIGHT AND SAW THIS HAPPEN RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER CAR. HER LITTLE SON ASKED HER WHY THE GIRL WOULD DO THAT, AND SHE TOLD HIM SHE DIDN'T KNOW. NOBODY WILL EVER KNOW THE REAL REASON WHY SHE JUMPED. THIS IS VERY SAD. THE POLICE SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE, BUT WHOSE TO SAY THEY COULD HAVE STOPPED HER. I WISH HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS THE BEST OF LUCK TO PULL THROUGH THIS.

11:14 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
31. melissa k says :

Omg sade i cant believe this man i just seen you at a party like a week ago!!! You seemed real happy i cant believe this baby gurl ily.....i remember our days at valley view....when my mom passed and you were there assuring me that everything would b okay i looked at you like ma sis.....omg sade i beg the lord to take you and give yout the love and protection u need.....ILy baby gurl R.I.P SaDe!!!!!

11:14 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
32. Ta'mika Mims says :

R.I.P sade
I wish i wouldve known you were going through things becus i wouldve surely helped you..you will truly be missed girl..its crazy cus i jus saw you like 2 weeks ago

we all need to realize that sometimes we think we be going thru it and its somebody out there who is going thru bigger things..take time and reflect on life, cherish your friends and family and recognize when they are calling for help.

11:16 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
33. jamie says :

mann sade i really didnt know u like that i seen u a few times when u came over shorty house when i was there mann u seem like a coo person im so sorry to hear abut what happend i dove pass the sceen and seen a lot of police i it thoight it was car aciddent becuzz i seen a lady pulled over in her van she had a pink shirt on and she as crying i was thinking like what happend .....then later that night i herd some lady jumped off the freeway bridge and killed her self i was hurt by that and that stayed on mamind all night then i woke up that morning to try to get moe info and i found out that somebody was you ......im soo sorr to hear about what happend mann ill keep her family in ma prayers rip sade

11:16 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
34. jamie blackburn says :

mannn this is so sad I didn't really know u sade I seen u a few times when u came to shorty house u seem like a coo person mannn I was so sad o hear that dat was u like u stay on ma mind a lot like I just wish I could of did something to help u and stop u I drove past and seen a lot of police car at like 8:20 and im like what the heack happend hear not knowing it was someone jumped off the freeway briged and that someone was u "sade" mann ma prays go out to ur family u r very much loved rip sade

11:16 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
35. RIP SADE says :

RIP SADE!!!
YOU ARE LOVED AND MISS!
MANY MEMORIES, OF YOU FROM MIDDLE SCHOOL....
YOU WERE SO YOUNG GIRL!! :( I KNOW ITS TOO LATE TO SAY BUT, ITS SO FUNNY HOW THE PEOPLE ARE AROUND WITH OPEN ARMS AND LOVE FOR YOU NOW SADE!! YOU HAD IT ALWAYS! BUT U JUST COULDNT SEE IT OR FIND IT AT THE TIME OF NEED....MAYBE THAT WOULD OF CHANGED YOUR DECESSION, IF YOU HAD THEM THEN THAT NIGHT....IF ONLY YOU WOULD HAVE WAITED AND STAYED STRONG....AND YOU WERE VERY STRONG GIRL!! EVERYTHING WOULD HAVE CAME TOGETHER FOR YOU!!!
GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL AND FAMILY..LOVED ONES....

YOUR TRULEY LOVED AND IN THOUGHTS & PRAYERS!!!!

RIP SADE

11:17 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
36. Mr. Fife says :

The police could take their time because its not illegal to commit suicide. Also, for those who have ever fallen hard enough to be knocked unconcious, there's no suffering; its just blank: you're out. Blame the liberals for the separation of church and state, blame the doctors who overmedicate society, blame insanity itself (and pass a law to make insanity illegal), but don't blame the police for taking 10 minutes to get there when they also have hundreds of thousands of others to serve and protect. Suicide should be illegal; that would stop it.

11:17 pm Sun, Jun 14th, 2009
37. mencil aka ranell says :

Man idk what to say....this happen so sudden thats another homie coming and going this makes it harder to live....ima miss you girl

R.I.P. SADE SEE YOU SOON

12:48 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
38. Karen says :

First, my sympathies to the family. We passed the girl at 8:02 as we drove eastbound on the freeway. Two police cars were entering the freeway at Nason westbound, sirens on, and in a big hurry. Why do people want to blame the police? I don't think they would have been able to prevent this. I have lived in Moreno Valley for 21 years and we have an excellent police department.

12:52 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
39. sad says :

let me tell you about our police and ambulance people. several years ago i was suicidal. i had taken an overdose of pills, but was still very coherint to my surroundings and what was going on. i remember being loaded into the ambulance and the paramedic, the man who was supposed to be compassionate and nonjudgmental told the police officer, "give her your gun and let her finish herself off!" word for word. i hear it every time i think of this. i know that police officers and medics are here to "save" lives and i know that they despise it when someone is attempting to take their life, but that doesn't give them the right to take their sweet time to get to the scene to help someone in need. only God will judge.
rest in peace sade. i'm so sorry that things were weighing so heavy on your shoulders that you felt the need to take your life. my prayers to her family and friends.

12:52 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
40. Ashley says :

Very Sad News!!! RIP Sade... Prayers go out to the fam... ill keep the memories of middle school and high school with me always!! your gonna be miss!!

12:52 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
41. TYESSE P. says :

MANNNN SADE...I'M SO SPEECHLESS RIGTH NOW...I DNT EVEN KNO WAT 2 SAY...I HAVE BEEN CRYING FOR HOURS...WE HAVE KNOWN EACHOTHER SINCE WE WERE 12 YRS OLD...YOU WERE ONE OF THE FIRST FRIENDS I HAD OUT HERE...U WERE ALWAYS SO SILLY AND FULL OF LIFE NO ONE CLD BE IN A BAD MOOD AROUND YOU...YOU ALWAYS KNEW WAT 2 DO AND HOW 2 CHEER ME UP...I REMEmBER JST SEEING U AT THE STORE...U LOOKED AT ME ALL CRAZY AND SAID TYESSE GIRL IS THAT YOU...I STARTED LAUGHING I GAVE U THE BIGGEST AND TIGHEST HUG IN THE WORLD AND YOU DID THE SAME BACK...U HAD NUTHN BUT GOOD THINGS 2 SAY 2 ME...U WERE TELLN ME HOW MUCH I HAVE GROWN AND HOW BEAUTIFUL I WAS...WE CLD NOT STOP SMILING AND COMPLIMENTING EACHOTHER....WE EXCHANGED NUMBERS AND B4 I CLD PULL OUT ALL THE WAY YOU WERE ALREADY CALLN ME LOL....WE JST MADE PLANS 2 HANG OUT...MAN BABYGIRL...I WISH I WLD HAVE KNOWN SOMETHING WAS HEAVY ON UR HEART BECAUSE I WLD HAVE DONE EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IN MY POWER 2 HELP YOU...BUT U HID UR PAIN SO WELL BEHIND THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE...I WILL TRUELY MISS U AND I WISH I WAS THERE I WLD HAVE HELD YOU SO TIGHTLY IN MY ARMS...U WLD NOT HAVE BN ABLE TO ESCAPE....I WLD HAVE TLD YOU HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU AND APPRECIATED YOU....I'M SO SO SORRY HONEY...MAY GOD EMBRACE WITH HIS PEACE AND LOVE...MAKE SURE U LOOK OUT FOR THAT BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL OF YOURS FROM UP THERE...AND DNT FORGET 2 KEEP A EYE ON ME LIKE U ALWAYS DID WHEN U WERE HERE....I LOVE YOU SADE I WILL SINCERLY MISS YOU SWEETHEART...

Sincerly TYESSE AKA UR MELLON YELLOW....I HATED WHN U SUNG THAT SONG AND GAVE ME THAT NAME NOW I WISH I CLD HEAR IT ONE MORE TIME...R.I.P ANGEL...

12:54 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
42. life..... says :

This is truly sad....people we can't point fingers at one another...sounds to me like...there were many on lookers but one person who desperately tried to help...you should be blaming yourselves....it takes a community to raise one child and for everyone to just watch someone fall to there death is simply terrifying to here....we are all Gods children and we shouldn't treat people this way....just know that when you think your going thru something there's someone out there going thru something different that's way worse then you....life is precious lend a hand maybe someone could've prayed with her on the ledge...or told her they loved her....or reassured her that everything will be ok....or helped her realized that she will be leaving her child behind alone....but no....people just stared and looked on as if it was a joke...the police is not the to blame....YOU ARE....
And so I pray,

Dear heavenly father,

We come to you again asking forgiveness
that we may have done since our last prayer.
We ask for mercy on those who don't seek you.
I pray that you keep your ministering angels
around and about our family and friends.
And we wanna thank you for the things you have
done for us and our families. Thank you for letting
Us see another day that wasn't promised to us. We ask
That you remove all the unnecessary things
out of our lives. Things that make us unhappy
Things that are not worthy of us. We pray
That we grow powerful and be a praying parents, sons, and daughters,
Just like our friends and family, And make sure our kids
have God's angels over them everyday until they're old enough to seek you. We pray that we will have
much more better days than what we've been
having. We pray and seek happiness through you first.
In Jesus name,
We pray,
Amen.

R.I.p. Young lady

12:54 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
43. Tiara Baxter says :

Sade you will always be missed.I can't believe this has happen, I just seen you on Thursday you had that smile on your face that you have always had. If I would have known you were going through some things I would have talked to you. I will always remember your last words to me..(you said Tiara what do you be feeding your daughters,I gave you my number and told you to call me sometime.) I never thought that when I said bye girl see you later, that it would be my last time seeing you. We go way back to Bear Valley, I remember us playing on the play ground. I think back when we went to six flags.I just wanna say that you will always remain in my heart,you will never be forgotten.R.I.P SADE

12:55 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
44. miracle327 says :

GOD is the ANSWER and nobody has the right to judge this LITTLE ANGEL that decide to commit such a horrible act. Lets pray for her family that was left behind suffering for their loss.GOD be with her family and confort them with his love.

5:40 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
45. anavinson27 says :

rip sade iwill love you

5:41 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
46. val'lena phillips says :

I completely agree with "allie"... it's crazy how i'm reading all these different story's from people who were actually there, REALLY! no one couldn't do anything to stop her? this wasn't no dam lifetime premiere movie; this was real!! and no one did nothing.
All today in class all I can think about is Sade and as I read people's comments, it touches me so hard when I read about the drama she's been going through with the dad and girlfriend, (wheater or not true) I've been and still is going through the same thing,(different measure's) You can never understand how it feels to not beable to talk to your child, or not beable to see them. I've too been "VERY WEAK" before because of that, words can not even come close to try to get someone to understand, inless you've experienced it happening to you, and people won't even notice something is wrong, because you gotta keep a smile on your face. Now days not everyone can be trusted, the'll only try and judge you. We didn't talk really in middle school, and just a little in high school, but i remember you like it was only yesterday. I wish we had crossed each other again now that were all grown up, because I know how you may have felt.
Rest In Peace MaMa's
and prayers to your beautiful daughter & family, luv

5:41 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
47. cinndarealla says :

I just wanna say 2 all the people who r saying its not the fault of the police for getting there late....there's a firestation not even 1 min away from that freeway...right by walgreens...I knew sade...we wernt close friends but we were still friends...and c all my friends hurting is hurting me...I pray god forgives her and I wish this never happend...

5:55 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
48. T.Hood says :

R.I.P Sade, god bless you and your family.
Especially your baby.

My prayers goes out to your family.

11:41 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
49. Benjamin says :

Many of our young adults are suffering quietly right under our noses. I knew Sada. She was a wonderful little girl with everything to live for. How many other young adults, who appear to be happy on the outside, is suffering within. Watch your young adult and use your motherly or fatherly intuition and get involved with your young adult. Remember, the young person will not tell you what the problem is. I just wish I was there to help Sada.

11:41 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
50. Legz says :

I love you and will keep you and your family close to my heart. R.I.P baby girl. I love you..TTYL

11:42 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
51. emergencies says :

I didn't know Sade, I am sad just the same. My heartfelt sympathies go out to her family and friends. This is so tragic. I am sorry for your loss. Please keep in mind that a 911 call from a cell phone goes to the highway patrol in that county, then they have to dispatch to the local sheriff's dept. It can take several minutes for the call to get even close to the right place. Alot of times 911 is just simply dealing with traffic calls and it can be busy or just ring and ring. I found this out the hard way. Please find out your local sheriff's phone number and put that number in your cell phone for local emergencies. They will pick up almost immediately and dispach the closest patrol in the area alot faster than 911. I have 911 on my phone for traffic issues and the local sheriff's number for emergencies. Please remember that at anytime our loved ones can be taken from us. Never take for granted anyone you care about.

11:42 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
52. Lauren says :

I cannot believe this tragedy happened. I knew sade in middle/high school/ and cosmetology school. She was the "class clown" so to speak. So outgoing and strong willed. Such a friendly person and always happy. RIP sade. You will be much remembered by everyone.

11:42 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
53. mom of lots says :

To "life..."- it does not take a community to raise one child, it takes one mother and one father to raise one child.

11:43 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
54. T.Hood says :

R.I.P Sade, god bless you and your family.
Especially your baby.

My prayers goes out to your family.

11:44 pm Mon, Jun 15th, 2009
55. Desmond C. C. says :

Hey Mamas I remember I use to see you after school when I used to drop by after March Mountian let out. You were always so full of life always so happy. Ive been in Japan for a good 4 years. I havent seen you in a while. I still have your image/your voice in my head. You use to jump on me and call me your big brother. Ive always missed you and I always will. I hope god shines on your daughter with love, protection and compassion. I love you baby girl R.I.P.

1:43 pm Tue, Jun 16th, 2009
56. d says :

when you call 911 from your cell it goes to chp. they then need to redirect calls to the appropriate agency which can take a while. chp should have been handling the call because she was on the freeway. she was determined to jump and was successful. she would have jumped regardless of who tried to intervene. everyone is upset that she ran back to the bridge and jumped after she no longer heard sirens. maybe mvpd saw her walking away from the bridge and then turned off their lights/sirens and got on the freeway to get to her location. maybe it was the ambulance sirens she heard...they were the first onscene right when she jumped and rendered aid immediately. the fire department showed up soon after as did pd. people don't realize that driving with lights/sirens puts everyones lives in jeopardy so why would they continue driving with them on if she walked away? it was no longer an emergency. maybe one of the many bystanders should have done something. every single civilian on here who say they witnessed her on the bridge and jump all have an excuse for why they didn't go up there but want to blame pd. maybe pd were busy on other calls. afterall we are talking about moreno valley on a friday evening. unfortunately the 911 system is abused and that's why it takes forever to get thru or to get a response. it is for life threatening emergencies...not for the fact that you have a toothache etc. people need to be educated on when to call 911. stop blaming mvpd and ems. my heart goes out to everyone who witnessed her action and to her friends/family.

1:44 pm Tue, Jun 16th, 2009
57. Karla K. says :

Sade was on my mind a week or so before this happened, I did not find out about this until yesterday, when my sister came by and told me. It's so hard thinking about the way it all happened, the turmoil that she must have been going through deep inside and covering it up from the rest of the world. I do the same at times, I'm mean such a feeling of deep dispair inside, most people cannot even fathom. The last time I talked to Sade was by the pool In the apartment complex we both lived in. She was living there with her daughter and her daughter's father at the time. We talked, and caught up, I could tell she wasn't the same Sade though. But I was so wrapped up in my own dispair to try to help her with hers. That was the last time I saw her, in 2006 or 2007. I wish I was driving through that night, I would have pulled her down off that ledge and told her that I love her, and that God loves her, and hugged her so tight that she couldn't get lose from my embrace, to make sure that she couldn't get back on that ledge. I would have prayed for her right there, asked God to give her the stregnth. I can't even imagine Sade in that situation. We need to learn to love each other, and care a little bit more about others and what they may be going through instead of always worrying about ourselves, and our situations. God please take her soul and bless and comfort her family, in Jesus name, amen

7:16 pm Tue, Jun 16th, 2009
58. breath of life says :

It is really a blessing to see all the people who knew Sada to speak so well of her and send their love and prayers to her family. But the truth of the matter is, we really need to be a lot more sensitive to one another's needs before tragedy takes place. Look beyond the smiles and see the heart, listen behind the words and hear the pain. We are living in a time when nothing should be taken for granted, especially life. We hold grudges, speak negatively towards one another, look down on each other, and fight against each other. It is especially hard to watch our young people take on a "I don't care" attitude, life was given to us for a purpose, we individually need to find our purpose and fulfill it to the fullest. There are a lot of hidden treasures out there waiting to be revealed, not buried. If we would all take some time out to search within ourselves, ask God, why am I here and begin to pursue purpose, our destiny will be promising, our future will be rewarding. Let's not let Sada's incident be something we just talk about, something we are sad about today and then business as usual the next day. Let's begin to randomly call and encourage one another, speak to some one with a smile, bury the hatched with reveries, forgive one another, choose life by choosing Christ. Day by day, we will see change. Does this seem impossible? Well, Obama is president! (John 3:16)

9:38 pm Tue, Jun 16th, 2009
59. damion says :

sade i love you were my dog you beautiful and very funny i rember we used to sing suga free in history class and get kick out toget the i love you and miss you

9:38 pm Tue, Jun 16th, 2009
60. kim says :

hey well I wasn't there nd I didn't not kno her but gurl I pray for u nd r.i.p much respect kim

12:22 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
61. GB says :

I was there on Friday and if she would have thrown herself 1 minute before, she would have landed right next to me or on my car. At the time I got to location where she jump I was at the light about 4 cars back and I looked straight up ad saw two women struggling, at first I thought they were fighting and drunk and the traffic coming from the opposite direction toward the freeway bridge were stopping and people were starting to get out of their cars, and the people In front of me where also getting out of there car and calling the police. The girls then started to walk down the freeway ad I thought everything was cool. I waited a minute then the light turn green, so I began to turn left onto sunnymead, and half way through the intersection, I noticed that everyone was pointing and still watching and so I stopped. I watched the girl run towards the middle of the bridge, then stood on the ledge and threw herself backward onto the ground, and all I could remember is myself and the people around screaming for her to stop! It was terrible to watch and my 6 year old to watch but I'm glad that cars where in front of me because I didn't see her hit the ground.

Sunday, my friend was at Coco's and ran into the girl's family, and they told my friend the week prior this girl has had CPS take her child away and she had just found out that she had HIV. In additional to that she was also using drugs.

God will take care of her and her child!

11:30 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
62. lil mama says :

I hope that is A (Fact) True Statement you just posted GB!!!

11:31 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
63. BREZY says :

WOW, THIS NEWS IS ALMOST UNREALISTIC. I CAN'T JUSTIFY WHAT YOU DID OR WHY YOU DID IT BUT REGARDLESS THE LOVE MANY HAVE FOR YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE. I SEND MUCH LOVE AND BLESSINGS TO YOUR BABY GIRL AND PRAY THAT GOD GUIDES HER THROUGH LIFE WITH YOU IN HEART. IT HURTS ALOT OF THOSE WHO KNOW YOU TO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW WE ARE JUST A PHONE CALL A WAY OR A WALK UP THE BLOCK. MY GOD...............I STILL PRAY FOR YOU AND AND YOUR FAMILY.

11:31 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
64. quita cooper says :

to GB....above it dnt matter what she did. she gon mann. stop tryna bring out the bad. you shud have respect for ppl who r gone. =[
Comment Continued : The comment above was written from the same location.
11:33 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
65. quita cooper says :

ah man. this some s---. im way in hollywood nd i get a call like sade gone!!! this is a horrible experience. people go thru life bein so unhappy, nd yu think yu the only one but not even knowin the nxt person is goin thru it worst. i heard so many stories on why yu did it but it dnt matter cz it happen nd it shouldnt have. girl its all good tho. your soul heart nd life will be protected by God. R.I.P mamaz. we LOVE yu always

11:57 am Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
66. mama says :

I pray for your family! May god bless your soul!

3:27 pm Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
67. shannon says :

rip peace sade u will be missed

3:28 pm Wed, Jun 17th, 2009
68. KK says :

I was informed last night that the night she did it, she was @ someone's house I knew, kicking it, and she stated that she don't feel like living anymore and she's going to kill herself. They laughed it off because they didn't think she was serious, but she was. PEOPLE!!! IF YOU HEAR SOMEONE SAY ANYTHING LIKE THIS, FOR GOD'S SAKE REACH OUT... BE CAREFUL WHO YOU CALL YOUR FRIENDS!!! A REAL FRIEND WOULD HAVE BEEN CONCERNED ENOUGH TO STOP HER AND TALK TO HER ABOUT WHY SHE MADE THAT SERIOUS STATEMENT!!!

6:44 am Thu, Jun 18th, 2009
69. Princess Diva says :

My heart goes out to the family and especially her baby girl. Much Love

6:45 am Thu, Jun 18th, 2009
70. tamarrah says :

r.i.p. sade

man it's so crazy to hear that you are gone...
even tho its been 2 years since i've talked to you or seen you i feel just as sad as if it was just yesterday...

i cant get you off my mind... when i saw r.i.p sade i was like wut sade and i couldn't believe it was you...

but my prayers go out to your family and especially your baby girl... i just wish there was another way to deal with your pain... it's sad cause we all feel like we're going thru things and we always want to think of ourselves and no one never stops to think what the next person could be going thru and how bad it could be affecting them... but u don't have to go thru it anymore and now your in a better place...

r.i.p.

1:47 pm Thu, Jun 18th, 2009
71. God's Angel says :

Do anyone know have information on Services? Funeral home information where flowers can be sent? The community needs to show Sade and family all the love and attention in this time of need.

My condolences to the Family, Please remember he (God) won't put more than we can handle on our plates. Stay strong for one another and keep your head up. Prayer is the answer.

God Bless.

1:47 pm Thu, Jun 18th, 2009
72. Mariah says :

My uncle, aunt and my cousin saw the whole thing. :[ i would be so sad if i saw it in person.

9:55 pm Fri, Jun 19th, 2009
73. Karla K. says :

I talked to her daughter's grandfather, Pastor John Vinson a couple of hours ago, to see about funeral arrangements. He told me to call back later, I will update you all who would like to attend.

9:55 pm Fri, Jun 19th, 2009
74. keyshia...rip sade says :

man sade i cant believe u did this! i have never known u to be a weak person! in 5 maybe more years i have never seen u without a big ass grin on ur face. u would always tell me u loved me and it was so genuine. a true angel has returned to heaven. u will be truely missed.,. and to gB above kno ur facts before u go spreading false info! u shouldn`t even repeat that Even if it were true its irrelevant

9:55 pm Fri, Jun 19th, 2009
75. Concerned says :

Im hearing so many Rumors as to why she did this!? Does anyone know the real reason behind it? Im clueless and I think its unfair to her to have these ugly rumors circling the whole situation.

9:55 pm Fri, Jun 19th, 2009
76. beth says :

r.i.p gurl i remember when u stayed the night at my house and we all went to the beeach it seemed like yesterday. But ull always be in my heart i love u may u rest in peace.

2:52 pm Sun, Jun 21st, 2009
77. nelly says :

R.I.P. Sada

8:11 pm Mon, Jun 22nd, 2009
78. DB says :

MY PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF SADE, THAT YOU WILL FIND COMFORT, WE NEED TO LOVE LIKE WE NEVER LOVED BEFORE, EMBRASS OUR YOUNG PEOPLE. ENCOURAGE THEM, AND LISTEN TO THEM, HOLD THEM UP PRAY WITH AND FOR THEM, INTRODUCE THEM TO GOD, HELP THEM TO FORM A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. MY HEART GOES TO ALL THE MANY PEOPLE THAT WERE AFFECTED BY THIS TRAGEDY.FROM THE LADY THAT WAS TRYING TO GET HER DOWN TO THE ONES THAT WITNESSED THIS SAD ENDING OF THIS YOUNG WOMAN'S LIFE.....IT IS TIME TO PRAY

8:11 pm Mon, Jun 22nd, 2009
79. V.P. says :

I talked to pastor vinson, this morning. the funeral is thursday @11 at (1st. baptist) Its on heacock and postal, right there kinda by am/pm gas station and the old post office.... sorry for my wack directions, iIdon't have no address, but thats what I was told, and donations are needed.. you can go to the bank of america on iris in the stater bros. shopping center and let them know its for the account "eternal life apostolic church memorial fund, for sade hargress.... Let's all come together for sade.

7:11 am Tue, Jun 23rd, 2009
80. Ms.Hicks says :

Man. My heart is so heavy. Havent seen you in four years and it hurts like i wuz jus kickin it wit u yesterday. Y didnt you jus talk. Y didnt you have enyone to stand by you or anyone you felt u could talk to. Where is brianna. Sade i woulda beat you butt before i let u jump. Im sorry i moved away and couldnt be da one to jack u up and get you dwn. Dnt knw bout da hiv or da babydaddy s--- however livin for skye surpasses it all no matter if she wuz here or there ur presence woulda been all she needed and wntd. Im so mad at you. Im so mad at me. Im mad at everyone who wuz there and didnt snatch yo skinny butt up. I knw life can b so heavy of a load that the only thing u feel is left is da end. I knw dis ive felt dis. I jus wish ucould have overcome it all said f everyone else and lived for da future not da past. I can only imagine da pain ur family feels. Dey loved all of you good and bad. Ive missd you for four years and could neva find you. Now doe i will never find you. You gone. Sleep miss lady sleep.

3:41 pm Wed, Jun 24th, 2009
81. kevin cunningham says :

RIP Sade. though i hadnt seen you for like a year, ill miss you because now i wont see you.

3:41 pm Wed, Jun 24th, 2009
82. adam eastern says :

omg i feel so sorry nfor her i heard she jump because her boyfriend was beating her and her grandma had juyst put her out n alot of other stuff she was going thru some things omg my heart go out to her n her family

3:41 pm Wed, Jun 24th, 2009
83. Nichelle says :

From Sade's family: We would like to Thank each and everyone of you....for your prayers,love and support!!!! The contact address for flowers and cards can be sent to:
Mrs. Porter - Sade's mother
28299 Hemlock Ave.
Moreno Valley, Calif. 92555
God bless you all.

3:42 pm Wed, Jun 24th, 2009
84. KK says :

You know what..... everyone wants to stray away from the posibility that she may have had HIV and her daughter was taken from her by CPS. I know she is a friend and at this time we may be hurting, but being in denial will not help any of us in the future. Use Sade as an example and learn from her experiences. Maybe some of this info needs to be known, we need a harsh reminder that none of us are above what happened to or what may have happened to Sade. Don't let her death be in vain, but learn from this young woman!!! R.I.P. Sade, God Bless.

8:10 pm Wed, Jun 24th, 2009
85. Qenya says :

Sade R.I.P.... I've known u over 5 years. I love u. God bless u and the fam. U have alot of souls that were touched by your smile and presence. U will truly be missed. I apolgize to u Sade on behalf of all of us that we did not see through the beauty of u and been more aware of what was really going on in your life.

Butter my sympathy goes out to u and your family. I'm sorry I couldn't be there 4 u. Losing someone u love can be painful. I pray that u can find your way through the pain and learn from this. Luv u!!!

8:35 am Thu, Jun 25th, 2009
86. Qenya says :

R.I.P. Sade. U will truly be missed by all who has come to know u. God bless your beautiful daughter and family, give them strength.

8:35 am Thu, Jun 25th, 2009
87. Nelly says :

This is a wake call for my sisters and brother: Lets to come together and stop, look and listen to each other. We need one other and most of all, we need GOD. talk to him. he will and can help. If you feel that you need more for some reason, call on me. I am not God, but I may the the vessel that God has choosen to use to get through you. Call me whenever you may be going through something or even if you just need someone to listen. I will be there there for you. I am sure you will be there for me.
R.I.P. Sade, Will be giving you your flower 2morrow. 6/25/09

12:46 am Fri, Jun 26th, 2009
88. Karla K says :

The funeral was nice, the church was packed, as everyone who knew and loved, or who was touched by Sade came out to show their love for her. There was supposed to be a parting view of her, However, the family decided not to let us get a parting view, because they want everyone to remember Sade, just the way she was. I did not get to see her at all, so in that I was very disappointed. A friend of mine went to her viewing yesterday, and said that she looked good and peaceful, like she was just sleeping.
RIP Sade

7:21 am Sat, Jun 27th, 2009
89. rest in peace sade says :

sade!!!!!! why!!!!!!! where are you man you aint really gone you cant be i seen you layin in your casket and i still dont believe it this feels like a dream dat i cant wake up from i miss seein you so happy just smilin and crackin jokes roastin people like always super comedy but just kno i love you soooo much sade and for all da people dat are bein negative and sayin rude and disrespectful things about sade ya'll need too grow up and respect the deceased she aint here too defend her self and she aint here too tell us why she did it so stop askin other people cuz all your doin is hearin rumors only sade knows why she did so keep yo thoughts and yo comments too yourself cuz what your doing is called gosip

6:52 am Mon, Jun 29th, 2009
90. gs says :

This makes me feel so sad. today i heard about this, me and a couple of my gfs were hanging out when they brought this up. i handnt heard about this, until today. when i found out i was in disbelief. i saw a picture of her and she was beatiful. i didnt know her, but
it made me sad to think that someone since young could have taken their life, knowing they had a little girl. by all the commentswc i have beenreadin, she seemed to be a wondeful girl. all hat negativity that people are posting is wrong. only she knows why she did it, it still doesnt justify her taking her life, but she knew her pain. may her soul rest in peace, and my god watch over her daughter. my prayers go out to her family, may god be with you..

i passed by the freeway and it saddens me that her family will forever have remember that spot. i hope her family is doing well.

Rip SADE

1:11 pm Wed, Jul 1st, 2009
91. RICHARD says :

DAMN RIP I DIDNT REALLY KNOW HER BUT HER BRO ORLANDO IS LIKE MAH BEST FREND IN I KNOW HE GOIN THREW ALOT RIGHT NOW I DIDNT SEE HER JUMP BUT I PASSED BY SHORTLY AFTER I THOUGHT SOMEONE HAD GOTTIN SHOT BUT WEN I GOT TO THE HOMIE MONTRELL HOUSE WITH IS HER COUSIN THEY TOLD IT WAS HER

7:09 pm Thu, Jul 2nd, 2009
92. no gossip please says :

To the person who said sade had HIV, and that her family told a friend of hers this info- that sounds like a bunch of bull to me. What kind of family loses a member then goes to cocos and spreads rumors about HIV? No one. This is gossip. Its the worst thing people can say about someone, and it cannot be proven, so the HIV rumor is often used when someone wants to shock people. We don't know what happened to this poor girl to make her feel so desperate, something could have happened in her childhood, you never know what's going on with someone, just cause my life has always been easy doesn't give me the right to judge someone and say she should have been stronger. Poor girl, she felt she had no options in life, I just hope her child will never hear one negative word about her. Rip, god bless the family. Keep her daughter safe and happy.

8:28 am Sat, Jul 4th, 2009
93. katie says :

Sade was a beautiful loving girl. I pray that her daughter will be taken care of and that her family will have strength to carry on.

3:25 pm Tue, Jul 7th, 2009
94. delvon says :

r.i.p

4:53 pm Thu, Jul 9th, 2009
95. josey43 says :

To the family, anyone that new her, and to everyone that has been touched by her. Such as I have been touched by her, not knowing her. God bless you all and hope that not only can we find peace in our hearts but that we can be able to love and respect each other. We might never know what is hidden inside of each one of us. So before we go off at anyone such as the teller that didn't say thank you, the person behind you that honked at you, or the lady that stared at you, remember that you don't know what problems they may have;and that you might say the last thing that might make them react. PLEASE, EVEN THOUGH IT IS HUMAN TO BE CURIOUS, LET SADE'S SOUL GO IN PEACE. DO NOT SAY RUMORS IF THEY DID NOT COME STRAIGHT FROM THE DIRECT FAMILY. AND IF THEY DID COME FROM THEM, HEAR THEM AND SOAK THEM UP LIKE A SPONGE. KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF. My deepest feelings and prayers. Rest in PEACE.

1:40 pm Thu, Jul 16th, 2009
96. Shayla says :

RIP Sade.. I met you once and your spirits were so high and your personality shined! My prayers out to the family.. :fear not for I am with you; be not dismayed for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous hand." - Isaiah 41:10

7:06 pm Sun, Jul 19th, 2009
97. Trey Croom says :

RIP Sade..

10:44 am Wed, Jul 22nd, 2009
98. Yanni says :

Suicide is a SELFISH thing to do. Let's put some responsibility on the individual who, instead of working on her problems, felt it necessary to traumatize others and jump. Those who watched her die will be impacted for life. Did she care? Nope. SELFISH!! I'm reading in some of these comments that this woman had a baby too? Are you kidding me?! What a selfish person to make her child an orphan.

4:59 pm Thu, Jul 23rd, 2009
99. Kimberly Graham says :

R.I.P. Sade. me and the boys love you...xoxo treyvonn and tai

10:48 pm Thu, Aug 6th, 2009
100. Timothy Davis says :

R.I.P SADE.ANGEL.HARGREES I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND YOU WHERE SO BEATUTIFUL AND SO COOL.AND WE WILL ALL MISS IN MO VAL FROM PEOPLE TO LANDMARK AND VALLEY VIEW HIGH WE LOVE YOU.AND GOD WILL TAKE GOOD CARE OF HIS AND OR SADE ANGEL 1 LOVE.

7:48 pm Wed, Aug 12th, 2009
101. marie says :

Prayers to the family. This makes me so mad! Once again Mo Val's finest not responding but you can always see more then one parked on Perris by the Cardena's supermarket or on Perris on the side of Sunnymead Park, or on Fir hiding out pulling people over coming down Perris, I know I live in the area and you want to tell me it took them 15 to respond!!.I'm not surprised! They're too busy issuing tickets and having check points!

5:58 am Tue, Sep 22nd, 2009
102. Amanda says :

I dont even know where to start. I just moved to Moreno Valley. I live of of Perris. Last week I could not get home because the roads where blocked off. Curious to know what happened I looked it up and found out that some man tried to car jack people. But also was an article about a young lady who jumped to her death. I can stop reading about her. I dont know wht she did this or what happened. I jus wished that sumone could have helped her that day on the ledge.R.I.P Sada.There is a little flower site going on under the freeway near the Perris offramp does anyone know if that is for Sada. Please hit me up @ br5226@aol.com. I would love to pay my respects and pu sumthing there for her.This happened 3 months ago June 12,2009 @ 8:03pm. I was at my sons graduation, while Sada was jumping to her death. May god bless her family.

11:37 pm Tue, Sep 29th, 2009
103. scorpio87....r.i.p mamas says :

mann im still at lost for words, my heart is broken!! i will never forget you never!!! you were my nigga, as you would say "my bitch", excuse my french but thats how it was! I still hear your laugh just like you were next to me!..you would come over to my house like every day and swoop me up in yo hoopty cadi...lol it pushed though!!! and remember them jacuzzi's nights with the girls..lol..hit the clubs..the good times we had alot of them!!! i remember when you were first pregnant wit skye, we were eating at millies and you just threw up all in your cup grosssss lol...hehe Dang sade i got some MEMORIES with yo ass thats going to last a life time!!! IM soooo sorry for not being there for you, i know your in a better place, even though i cant see your face, i know your shinning down on Us saying it okay!!!! i got so much love for you.. You are truely one sweet beautiful angel that i WONT forget!!!

5:23 pm Sat, Oct 31st, 2009
104. nancy r.i.p Angle says :

i will always love you ,sade you were like my sister i still cant belive this i just pray that all this hurt will go way ,no matter wat i will always be there for skye love always n 4 ever i will truly miss you !

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