Tim O’LearySpecial to the Valley NewsCan you imagine me at a tea party? Until recently, it would have indeed been an odd sight to see.And so I found myself being just one of two men amid nearly 20 women participating in the Impossible Dream Tea Party, a colorful event held at the amazing Fallbrook home of an award-winning artist, photographer, video producer and university teacher.The fete featured an Alice in Wonderland theme. It was a journey of joy, beauty and the tenacity of the human spirit. It was a celebration of life organized by a nonprofit that is a welcome newcomer to our close-knit community.A few months ago, Michelle’s Place Cancer Resource Center expanded its services to the Fallbrook area. I was first acquainted with that group when I covered Temecula